
Recently there was a study done in which it was determined that people in America are being religious without institutions (read more). According to the findings, “While weekly attendees of religious services dropped from 32 to 26 percent of the population between 1983 and 2006, people praying daily rose from 54 to 59 percent in the same time period.” Apparently there is still a strong belief in God and even in the afterlife, but fewer and fewer people are finding a need to attend church because they can pray and have a personal relationship with God apart from the church. Besides, Facebook demonstrates that it is possible to have community without commitment. It is possible to have community without depth of relationship. While this may work on the Internet communities, it often proves counterproductive when applied to the church community.
Facebook is community without depth; community without commitment. Church is community with depth and commitment. It is the way God has designed it. As disciples of Christ, we are called to be in community. There are two many “one another” passages in the Bible to deny this. And yet, this community is also with commitment and depth. The Christian life is not designed to be a life lived in isolation. God saves us and calls us together. We are to pray together. We are to sing together. We are to eat together. We are to serve together. We are to study together. We are to raise children together. We are to live and die together. This togetherness creates a depth of intimacy that not only serves the cause of Christ (John 13:35), but it serves us in our times of need (2 Cor. 1:3-7).
The old joke is that church would be great if it weren't for the people, but this is not God's plan. He intends for us to be in community with others, to confess our sins, to be held countable, to seek guidance from those who are mature Christians, and to disciple those who are spiritual infants and adolescents. While community is central God's plan, it is the area of the Christian life most often ignored or intentionally avoided. While individuality and a psychologically-based and professionalized approach to helping are certainly aspects of our culture, including the church, I think the root cause of this problem is spiritual immaturity. Most of us are spiritual babies and we stay that way our entire lives. We seek to be served, we're most passionate about our own interests (i.e., worship style), and while we say, "Jesus is Lord of my life," the way we live our lives demonstrates that we're more interested in self-salvation. As long as the church is primarily made up of spiritual babies, our collective focus will rarely move away from our own personal needs and interests.